To remove the diaphragm you need to remove the 3rd member from the axle. That means supporting the vehicle frame, draining the diff, unbolting the drive shaft and ratchet strapping it to the muffler, unbolting the wheel bearing/brake assemblies, loosening parking brake cable brackets, pulling the axle shafts out around 4 inches, then removing the nuts around the third member and finally pulling that heavy bastard out without breaking your hand.
Then figuring out how to deal with the fact that diaphragms are discontinued.